Wednesday, November 21, 2007


My apologies...a glitch in my system hasn't allowed me to post to my blogspot for three weeks now. But I'm back and just in time for Thanksgiving and Christmas. Here's a quick one tough mother thought as you load up your van today and hit those 4:00 am sales for whacked-out consumers (btw, I'm way to old for such a thing--I'll amble my way in around December 23rd and find something that works for everyone on my list) and it is this: Don't lose your mind during these next four weeks! Don't try and make up for all relational dsyfunction by charging gifts you can't afford for people you don't particularly like and say no, and say it often...

"No, I'm not buying you the New! Improved! Nintendo/PlayStation/Strawberry Shortcake Galactic-Mafia-Be-a-Pimp-for-a-Day game station and accompanying $125.00 games!"

"No, we will not event attempt to hit five different homes with five different sets of relatives in a five-hour time frame!"

"No, we will not feel guilty about the above no."

"No, I'm not going to count the carb/fat/calorie levels of the plate in front of me...or someone else!"

"No, I will not choose to defile the sanctity of the holiday dinner table hour to hash out all my pent-up issues with my brother and/or sister."


  1. Julie, you would have been so proud of me. My 4yr old was having a major meltdown about bedtime and after lots of screaming on his part I grabbed him by his little shoulders and said "who is the boss" and he said "you are" and I said "who is going to win" and he said "you are" and I said "Why am I going to win" and he said "you are because you are the boss". I told him to get in bed and stop AND HE DID!!!

    My husband looked on while this whole scene played out and when the child got into bed, my husband gave me the nod of approval!

  2. Hey Julie,

    Have you started your Christmas letter yet? I emailed you mine like you asked at the MOPS convention! Have a great Christmas!